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Young men who admit to hitting, kicking, choking and even wanting to kill the women they claim to love are opening up to Winfrey and giving an unprecedented look inside the minds of abusers. Sir says the first time he laid his hands on his wife, Christy, was just weeks after their wedding.
He says he got jealous after a party where she was dancing with someone else. I remember walking up to her and smacking her full force," Sir says. Then, I walked her over to the bushes and threw her in there, and I just started choking her. It was with every bit of rage, every bit of anger I've ever had. After the first incident of abuse , Sir says he held a gun to his head. Sir promised Christy it would never happen again, and she forgave him.
Though Sir swore to his wife that the abuse would stop, it continued for the next two-and-a-half years. Even while Christy was pregnant, she says Sir beat her to the point where she feared for her life. Christy says Sir choked her and covered her nose and mouth so she couldn't breathe. Is this really happening? When he was in a rage and beating Christy, Sir says he did want her to die. I felt like I had power and control over something in my life," Sir says.
I would try and express my anger and my disappointment the only way I knew how. And that was through abuse. Eventually, Christy left Sir and gave him an ultimatum -- either they would include Christ in their marriage or she would not return to Sir. It was so much better. Sir says it's been about two years since he last hit Christy. Christy says that if Sir were to ever hit her again, she would leave. Though Sir says the abuse has stopped, he admits it's an everyday struggle.
Though Sir can't speak for all men, he believes his own abusive behavior was triggered by his past. I didn't know how to verbally disagree with her and say, 'We don't see eye to eye,' and be okay with that. Does Sir believe that every man who hits a woman once will hit her again? Tony is another man who admits to having abused a woman. In an e-mail to Winfrey, he said he beat a previous girlfriend so badly she bled. To see her stare at another man, or to see her have a conversation with another man, or if she confronted me about anything, it enraged me.
Though Tony says he knew, even in the moment, that he shouldn't being doing what he was doing, he says he couldn't stop. Today, he says he's trying to make amends for his previous actions by speaking out against domestic violence whenever he can. Tony says it felt like he "blacked out" during the abuse. He says being in an abusive relationship is like being in a drug addiction. That's the only connection you have, because there's no real love," he says.
Although physical abuse is never acceptable, Sir and Tony say it's the emotional abuse that leaves the deepest scars. On the inside, you strip away their pride, force them to compromise their self-worth, their self-respect. Tony says a grooming process tends to take place within abusive relationships. The relationship is built on deception," he says. The grooming, Sir and Tony say, stems from the man's own lack of self-worth.
It's an issue Sir says he and his wife are still working through. I took almost every secret that she gave me to in an argument and threw it back at her as an insult," he says. Many people who have never experienced abuse wonder why it isn't easy for a woman to leave after the first time she's hit.
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Young men who admit to hitting, kicking, choking and even wanting to kill the women they claim to love are opening up to Winfrey and giving an unprecedented look inside the minds of abusers. Sir says the first time he laid his hands on his wife, Christy, was just weeks after their wedding. He says he got jealous after a party where she was dancing with someone else. I remember walking up to her and smacking her full force," Sir says. Then, I walked her over to the bushes and threw her in there, and I just started choking her. It was with every bit of rage, every bit of anger I've ever had.
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